HOW and HOW NOT to Approach A WOMAN

Kai Palikiko Nov. 10, 2019

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I know there is a lot of you guys who are single right now, and one of the biggest obstacles that a lot of guys face is this very fact right here.

A lot of guys have the biggest fear. I mean, I'm talking about really big guys, guys who are enthusiastic, guys who are full of energy, but their biggest fear is this - having to open up or compliment a girl in a direct manner, in a public place.

For some odd reason a lot of guys truly believe like somehow they could finagle their way into somehow complementing a girl, picking up a girl pretty much at the bar, at a club, at some kind of public place, at the gym.

And that's the one fear that I'm really trying to make guys understand is that there is never going to come a time to where a girl is going to be by herself. We need to get over that fact, if you are single, right now, newly divorced, whatever it is.

That is the one fact that you need to understand - stop believing that somehow you could either find a girl by herself in public or the other part, somehow you can just tell her your resume, having all the safest conversation, and she would get the point. Right?

Most people, you have to think, look at a bar, look at a club, or not even the nighttime venues, I'm talking about your regular day to day venues right now, a regular restaurant, even a library. Majority of people are busy, right? I'm sure you can see for yourself as well. I mean, how busy are you right now?

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I'm sure you're not watching this at a leisurely time. I'm sure you are watching this video right now while you're driving, while you're at work, while you are doing something, while you are at the gym, maybe. Most people do not have a lot of time.

They're trying to fit in any little thing that they can, even the luxuries, during, you know, during the busy time. When you're trying to talk to a girl, does she have time to really slow down and talk to you? She doesn't.

So in order for you to really get the most out of each interaction, especially when it comes to you being single, boys you don't have time to do the indirect crap. Oh, this is what I do, this is my resume, this is what I do again, these are my goals. It's a lot more weird.

And really understand this part too, because it took me a very long time to understand this fact, in terms of social interactions - it's a lot more weird for guys to open that way, having the safe conversations in any interaction.

Now if you genuinely just have no feelings for the girl, you don't find her attractive whatsoever, then fine, that's all good, that's all fine and dandy, there's nothing wrong with that at all. But if you are truly interested in a girl, and you find her absolutely amazing, a gorgeous looking, you have to open turn to her directly because not only that you don't have time to diddle around or to be derping around, neither does the girl.

So that's my biggest thing. And I wish I understood this back then, especially when I first started really going after when it comes to women. When it comes to you and you getting the fast track and getting a shortcut of all this, you have to understand you have to be direct, enough with the safe conversations, enough with the, you know, do you know the direction to this or where's the nearest Starbucks?

What's your favorite kombucha? Enough with that crap. You're never going to find a place to where you can compliment a girl and you are nowhere near other people. You're gonna have to compliment a girl in front of her friends, in front of other people, in an elevator, in a very public place.

That's one of those things. It's like pinning, there is no trying, there's no maybe, I just have to get it done. Same thing with you. When it comes to opening a girl, you are gonna have to open to her in front of other people as well.

I get it, I get it most guys are in the self-preservation mode. Most guys are thinking, well, I'd rather play it safe than being turned down in front of everybody. So what is that going to give us? Really? What's that going to give you?

You are going to be the same exact place where you are now by yourself, not with anybody. Right? You are gonna be by yourself, you're going to be home, Friday night, not with anybody. So that's my entire thing about all this.

Do not be afraid to open a girl in front of other people. Biggest worst case scenario, you're going to get turned down and you are going to be single anyways. Or you are going to be at home and at least you took your shot, at least you took your chance to actually get that thing done.

So he next time you see a girl and you truly find her attractive, don't start off with hey, do you know... Don't do that. The straight up compliment, there doesn't need to be a cause behind it either. If you find her gorgeous hey, you look adorable, my name is blah blah blah blah blah.

That's how you get it done, no derping around, direct contact, direct information, direct truth, because that's what she wants. Nothing's more weird then some guy hey, you know, she's like why the fuck is this guy asking me that?

You have Google, you have something on your phone, what are you doing talking? You know what I mean? So be direct, be more direct is exactly what you want.

And hey, this is a fear and I get that and you slowly have to build up to it. But still, at least you could start now. Start now, get things done. Get over that fact and stop being afraid when it comes to women.

Again, I understand, I was there as well, same exact situation. It took me a couple of months or so to get over that fear, but I promise you it's much better than just standing there next to some girl that you find hot, and just constantly are you in line?

Oh, you're not line? Ok. Don't do that, that's weird. I want you to be a badass at the gym, a badass in life, and absolutely a badass in picking women as well. Take care.

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