How To Find A Woman | 3 Best Places To Approach

Kai Palikiko Oct. 26, 2019

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Don't use the information I am about to give you right now, to just oh, cool story Kai, put in my pocket, cool thing to talk about later. No. I need you to take action. It's so valuable that you can apply it into your life.

Here is my top three places to start really going at it when it comes to building your lead list when it comes to women.

Because again, one of the main reasons why, especially if you're single, recently divorced, or you're a bachelor right now, the main reason why you got into fitness in the first place is to get the validation or the love out of girls, right? And first of all, look, some guys, they feel like it's weird to work out for women.

That is the main reason why I started doing all this in the first place anyways. Here's my top three places as a beginner. The main reason why as a beginner by the way, and I will state this right now, most guys don't want to admit it, but this is the reason why this is a beginner friendly places.

Most guys are so afraid of approaching women in a public place. They don't want to have other people hearing them flirting with another girl.

So that's why this is the top three main places I'm going to recommend to you to where there's not going to be so many people around, and at the same time, you can approach a girl, a single set to where you don't have to worry about other people listening to you.

That's another thing that you and I need to overcome. But at least this is the beginning place to where you can actually finally start building your lead list of so many women throughout the week, so you have so many lead list to call during your weekend.

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The first one is my main place that I always go to, which is Barnes and Noble. or any type of book place, a library, Books-A-Million back in the day, anywhere to where there is a whole bunch of books, it's inside of a store, it's inside of a building.

The main reason why - because most girls that go in there, they are either studying, they're reading a book. But the main thing, there's not going to be a group of girls that you have to worry about, about other girls listening to your conversation, approaching women and you feeling insecure about it.

The way I usually go to this - you're gonna walk in, you're going to scope up the place, oh, awesome, there's a girl right there, she's studying, right? But she's in a public place, you're more than welcome to approach. That's the main reason why Barnes and Nobles is one of the main places that I go to. It's an easy set.

She's there by herself, there's not a lot of distractions. It's one of those places to where you can approach, you don't have to worry about people judging you, and at the same exact time, it's a single set. You don't have to worry about entertaining so many girls all at once.

Unlike a bar or a club, you can't just approach the girl, you have to approach everybody. This is the reason why Barnes and Nobles is one of the main places that I love going to, it's an easy set, you could get the number right then and there.

My next step would have to be Starbucks, right? It's still a - there is other people there, the majority of girls that go there, they're studying, they're reading a book, they're waiting at lunch. They're just there by themselves hanging out. These are the very most beginner places for me to really, truly approach.

The main reasons why it's so important for me, because you're not going to approach these girls as a, you know, very casual type of opener. You can approach them with intimacy, with direct type of pickup.

You're not there to talk about your favorite book, your favorite coffee, you're there to literally flirt with her. Your main mission is there to get her name, number, build up that lead list,s o you have so many girls to call at the end of the week. That is the whole point of all of this, to build your lead list.

Take for example, right, I'm going a little bit off topic here, Tyler's waving me down to stay on topic, but this is really important for me to show you. In terms of actual statistics, check this out. Let's just say you're approaching girls every single day for an entire month.

Say you're only doing for about, say 28 days, right, out of the entire month. So that's three names and numbers that you're getting every single day, times 28 days. That is 84, girls, you just got their names and their numbers. But let's say half of them flee. Alright, let's take half of them.

There is still 42 that you could go for. Now, let's say only half of those girls out of 42 is willing to go on a date with you. That is still 21 girls, that you have a possibility of making them to your girl, your future wife, maybe you just want to have sex and they want to have sex too. That's the whole entire point, boys, 21.

So how can you not do this? What's the whole point of us lifting again? What's the whole point of us living life again? Is to do all that, to feel love, to get the validation and the main thing that I always go back to, everybody here right now who's single, your main mission is always to look for your future partner, correct?

Hypothetically, she's gorgeous, because that's what you're looking for. She's hot. She is socially savvy. She is fun to be with. How ready are you right now, right now, not tomorrow, not a week from now. How ready are you right now to meet your future wife?

If you could honestly tell yourself, oh, I'm ready, then you're good to go. But in reality deep down inside, you know you're not. So how do you lead up to that? How do you become, you know, not to where you're not intimidated by hot, gorgeous women, by doing it in the first place, by building experience, by going out there every single day.

Every time you approach, it's not always going to be a home run. But it's never going to be to a point to where some girls are throwing drinks at you, shoving their head across your face, slapping you because you're approaching other girls in front of her.

All that happened to me by the way, because that's how far I'm pushing it. That's why a lot of guys are afraid of too, they're afraid of some kind of big blow up, to where you're going to get slapped, you're like, oh, my God, I can't believe you do that.

Worst case scenario - No, I'm good, thank you. That's it. No, I'm not interested, thank you. That's it. So what are you worried about? What are you waiting for? So those are the two places right now that I'm recommending you.

The very last place is an outdoor mall, not an indoor and outdoor mall, only because it seems a lot more lively to me. The sun's out, you're feeling good, she's feeling good, she's out there for a reason. That's one of the best places to approach, being an outdoor mall, because it's a social event. It's a place for girls to shop, and at same time they're out there to socialize as well.

So those are the three main places that I want you to start going to right now. You have zero excuses. It's beginner friendly. They're not going to be a big group of girls you have to worry about, it's not like the club or the bar or anything like that.

Where the bar is you like that. Place number one, Barnes and Nobles, or Books-A-Million or some kind of library pretty much. Place number two Starbucks. Place number three is an outdoor mall. Remember though, you're not out there to be derping around. You're out there, you have a job.

For some of you guys, you might see this as a try hard. To me, I don't care. I've been doing this for so long now that I don't care if people call it out as being try hard. Guess what I get rewarded with at the end of the week?

Dates, future possibility that I could end up with that girl. Make outs, double make outs, threesomes, getting laid. That is the whole thing for, is for you to grow socially. Some of you guys are so into your goal, and I get that.

?Do not let that as an excuse to stop you from growing socially. That's awesome, you're going amazing with your business. That's awesome that you're going hard with your workout. But if you're not also improving socially, that's also a deficit within your progression as well.

So do not forget to grow socially. Take this message, apply it right here right now. Do not wait until a week from now, a week from now, well, let me make sure I get my abs first. Screw all that. Take action now. Take care boys.

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