How To Update Your Dating Profile To Get 100 Messages In Less Than 7 Days

Kai Palikiko May 13, 2020

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Now to add on a little bit more bonus of those outdoor pictures, half of that, I want you to be looking at the camera and you're smiling. The other half of it, make it look like you're actually socializing.

So when you're socializing outside, you're not looking at the camera, you're putting your attention toward somebody else, you're focused towards someone else.

So the other half, you can't be smiling or looking at the camera either. You have to make it look like you're actually doing something. And I know this sounds weird. I do want to give a quick shout out to Chris, by the way, because he gave me this idea and a good reminder because he did ask me a series of questions on how to improve his online dating profile, and I did give him a good review on what he needed to change.

So Chris, shout out to my brother. Before I continue by the way, if you have any questions, hit me up on the link to my email, right below this video. You put in your name, your email, any question you have for me, it's going to go directly to my proton mail, and I am going to be answering it and reading it myself. So make sure you hit that up. Now when it comes to this particular subject, it's going to trigger some of us.

Simply because it's going to hurt us when it comes to our feelings and our emotions, and at the same time, some of us, it's going to hit us right into our insecurities. But this is what I love about the fraternity that you and I have built. We are men, we're masculine about the stuff, s we can actually directly solve into a problem without worrying about the inconveniences of feelings.

Because the best way to solve a problem is by being direct at it. We're going to be talking about how to instantly improve our online dating profile. First step is when it comes to our description, that doesn't matter at all. These girls are not going to read it, I guarantee you, because we could write, I like big floppy dildos up in my face, and they're not even going to know because they're not even going to read it.

How do I know this? Because I wrote that, no one even said anything about it at all except for like a couple of girls and they thought it was funny as shit, that's pretty much what it is. But for the majority of them, they don't care about your description, simply because when it comes to online dating profiles, it doesn't matter what we use, Tinder, Bumble, POF, whatever it is, it's all about the initiated interaction.

When it comes to the actual image of it, the aesthetics of it, even though it's a bulking agent, it doesn't aromatize, but I'll get to that in a minute when it comes to the post cycle therapy stuff, it doesn't aromatize.

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Which is the image that we are portrayed towards them. That's it. That's all there is to it. It has nothing to do with your job, I do this, I'm a fun guy. That's all going to be portrayed through the image.

Now when it comes to the most important thing about pictures that we do have in our profile is this - selfies, you're only allowed to have one. That's it, and that's going to be your main profile picture, because they need to see who you are, what you look like. But that's it, any more than that it's gonna look creepy. Because selfies are creepy. It makes you seem like, because even though you're not, I know you're a social guy.

I know. you're very charismatic, I know you're outgoing, and I know you're a good looking guy. But here's the problem with most men, we suck at representing ourselves. We suck at literally showing to the world who we are. So when it comes to selfies, the only thing that does, it makes us look like we're socially awkward. It makes us look like we don't have any social life at all. So you're only granted one selfie.

Because again, selfies are creepy in online dating profiles. So one selfie, that's it, the end, no argument about this, only one. Now the rest of the pictures though, what you do want to do is you want to represent how social you are. So that excludes indoor pictures like in your basement. Stop taking those. I don't care how pimped out your basement looks like.

You can have a frickin full bar, top shelf liquor, you have the best everything in there, you're still taking a picture in your basement. In your mind, it looks frickin awesome, right? Because you built that thing, it looks amazing, people come over all the time. What does that look like on their end when they're looking at? It is just a creepy guy taking basement pictures. That's it, they're gonna end up in your fridge or that's what they think that's gonna happen.

So no basement pictures at all, no indoor at all. You'll want to take the majority of your pictures outside to where it makes it look like you're socializing. No shirtless gym pictures either, because that still goes into the mentality of the basement creepy guy picture as well. So no shirtless selfie in the bathroom, in the gym, nothing like that at all, that is all perceived as - because again, I know you're not creepy, but from their point of view, it's perceived as creepy and socially awkward.

So when you're taking your pictures outside, you want to make it look like you're doing fun activities. So the best way to do this, you're saying Kai, how do I, how do I take pictures myself, when I can't take selfies? Do yourself a favor, buy yourself a tripod. Super simple, super cheap. It's like freaking $10 on Amazon.

Buy yourself a tripod and do what you normally do outside, even though you're doing it by yourself, just make it look like you are actually socializing, you can be outdoors on a Starbucks, by taking that self-time picture, you could be playing your sport, you could be playing soccer, you can be outdoors, you can be kayaking, as long as you're not taking it by yourself as a selfie. Make it look like somebody is taking that picture of you.

For example, I'm sure this happened to you before, you're at a party, you're in a social event, and somebody took a group picture. Just make it look like that, even though you're not in a group picture, make it look like somebody took a picture of you. And the best way to do this is by buying a tripod, putting the timer on it and make it look like you're doing some kind of activity. Now to add on a little bit more bonus of those outdoor pictures, half of that, I want you to be looking at the camera and you're smiling.

The other half of it, make it look like you're actually socializing. So when you're socializing outside, you're not looking at the camera, you're putting your attention towards somebody else, you're focused towards somebody else. So the other half, you can't be smiling or looking at the camera either.

You have to make it look like you're actually doing something. And I know this sounds weird, right, I know this sounds weird, but when you're doing a photo shoot, what you're doing is putting the best foot forward of how you are. You can't do that in an actual live setting, because that is not a photo shoot, that is not something to where you could actually take your hands on and be detailed about it.

So the best way to do is by actually sitting down and you know what, I need to do a photo shoot, in order to make sure my online dating profile gives the best representation of myself. Now during this entire time. I know it seems weird, I know it feels weird, but if you want results, if you're actually looking to take your dating life to the next level, you actually have - it's part of the process man.

It's like for guys who are actually socially awkward because they have anxiety. Socializing is weird to them. But for guys like me, it's not weird, talking to people it's not weird, opening to random people is not weird at all. So for you who is not used to doing photo shoots, it is weird, but I promise you, it's going to get you results.

So if you're sitting there and nobody's talking to me, nobody's messaged me back, nobody's matching with me at all, it's because it's you, stop blaming the women, stop blaming that these girls are just stupid ass bitch. It's not them at all. It's how you are representing yourself. So when it comes to these things by the way, when I say outdoors by the way, I don't mean to be in a literal park out here. When I say outdoors.

I just mean by outside your house, be in your office, be at somebody else's house, be at somewhere to where you are able to represent who you are. Now, in certain particular pictures, do a couple, be creative about it, do one to where it looks sporty, do one to where it looks casual, do one to where you are wearing your suit because you are going to your job, something like that, something to where it does represent the best of you.

You want multiple different pictures to show your personality, and not just the I take gym selfie pictures indoors in my basement. Here's my walk in freezer to where I'm gonna put you in. No, you don't want to do that. You want to make sure that you are a - because I know you are, you're a fun guy, you're a fun guy. Now, one quick tip by the way, when it comes taking this picture, make sure they're good quality.

Your phone is super HD, ok, so there's no reason to where you're taking a bad angle of yourself to where the sun is behind you, and everything is dark, everything is super pixelated. Nobody's gonna click on that, it doesn't matter how good looking you are. Ok, make sure you have the creativity to take cool pictures to where it's high HD as well. I don't want you to use this as your main funnel of your dating life.

This is literally just a supplement. Your main funnel should be going out and actually meeting women in the first place. I don't care where it is. Starbucks, Barnes and Nobles, the grocery store, it doesn't matter. Going through the takeout spot at your restaurant, it doesn't matter what it is. You just don't want to make this as your main funnel, simply because it's just a crutch. It doesn't take a brave person.

It doesn't take any charisma to hit a message. It takes real bravery to actually walk up to your person, openly flirt, be direct. And when it comes to this stuff, actually stating what you want. When it comes to online dating profiles, anybody can do this. But again, this is a good supplement to add on to the multiple backup dates that you do want during the weekend.

So this is literally the fastest way to improve your online dating profile right now, by taking out all the stuff that you and I just talked about, and just doing the small little things to make sure that you are representing yourself the best you can, for the images and the pictures that you have in your profile. Questions, email right below this video. Other than that boys, Kai here, out. Take care.

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