MISSION PLAN For GETTING A WOMAN After A Long Relationship

Kai Palikiko Feb. 2, 2020

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Oh, I'm just here to listen to the band. You don't give a shit about the band, I don't care about the band, I don't care, how many times have you listened to Mony Mony? Yeah, with your Corona in your hand, yeah.

For the most part, a lot of guys don't recover from this. In fact, they're a lot worse trying to going back into the dating world, they don't know what to do, and to be frank with you, a lot of guys are really stubborn.

And you know it, a lot of guys are really stubborn in terms of changing their old ways to adapt into the new dating world. Unless we don't want to become hermits about this and be that lonely old guy, we have to adapt. And these are the tips that I'm going to give you right now that you could do as a new single guy, who just got out of a relationship, that you could apply it now, to make your entire dating experience a whole lot easier, and a whole lot faster as well.

The first thing that we need to do is this, we need to establish, because I want to take action, that's the first thing. There's a lot of self-help, but we are just going to talk about the mental aspect of it... Screw that, we're men, we are masculine men, the first thing we want to do is to take action and work off that momentum. So first action we need to take is update your social media, update your social media.

I know we don't want to do Facebook, I know we don't want to do Instagram, I know it's a pain in the ass, but for the love of God, update your social media, alright? Now when it comes to that as well, when it comes to updating your pictures, a lot of people make this mistake. Stop taking selfies in some weird part of your room, in your bathroom, in your basement by yourself.

You know who does that? Who is that weird guy in, what's his name... Update your pictures and stop taking selfies inside your basement or your room or your bathroom by yourself. Unless of course you want to look like that guy from Silence of the Lamb, Bill, whatever his name is, or some other weird guy who drives a white van. Do you understand what I'm saying? Like, look, I get it, and at the same time too,

I think some of the reasons why a lot of guys don't want to update their stuff is because they're just insecure. They're just, and here's the thing, who cares man? Who cares? Yes, it is weird to take selfies in the general public, but guess what's going to help you on the long run? So that's what you should do. All the selfie pics that you do want to take, you want to take in a much more fun environment.

When it comes to the actual image of it, the aesthetics of it, even though it's a bulking agent, it doesn't aromatize, but I'll get to that in a minute when it comes to the post cycle therapy stuff, it doesn't aromatize.

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No weird bathroom, the gym by yourself. You want to be involved, other people behind you in the scene, because that makes you look like you're socially savvy, you're socially active, you're not going to be driving a white van with no windows on the side. You know what I mean?

That's my point. You have to look like you're fun. you're inviting, because I know that's how you are, I know that's how you are. But you just have to show that. If you're not showing that, people are going to take you for face value, which is what they see in social media. I guarantee you, women actually will Google you. And what are they going to see? Are they going to see a lotion in the basket? Or are they going to see you outside, having a good time, having a cigar, drinking with your friends?

That's what you need to do. You need to update your stuff. Now, the second part of all this is now we could talk about the mental stuff, because again, I want to take action first. Second part of that is now the healing part of it all, alright? It sucks that we went through and invested so long into your ex, your girl, whoever she was, but we have to move on. No more self-pity, no more sad stories. We have to go through that, don't get me wrong, right, we have to mourn ourselves, our past, we have to go through that sad part.

But we can't dwell on the past either. We got to move on. And we can't be telling our sad stories every single time either. We cannot be hateful about women. We can't do that to ourselves. You have to remember the fun version of you. How was that guy before he was tainted through this terrible relationship? That's what you need to do.

Find yourself to be a lot more fun, a lot more social, a lot more active, how it was before you were this miserable old person because, and it's understandable why, because you went through such a hard divorce, a hard relationship, a hard breakup, whatever it was. Just gotta get over it. However you need to do it. Meditation, self-help, reading books, spending time with new friends, all that stuff, right?

You just got to get through that, no matter what. The third part of this, all of your contacts, your ex's, all of those past girls that you have in your old Rolodex, whatever they call it, in your phone, do not contact them. You don't want to be that guy. Using your old dusty lead list of women, hey, what are you doing? What are you doing? Don't do that. Build a new lead list, find new girls to talk to, find a new place to where you could build it up. And go about it throughout your day, right?

I don't do the gym personally, because I find it as my sanctuary, but you have your grocery store, you have the coffee shops, approach, approach, approach. That's the biggest thing, you have to take action. Now you have to have a new mindset. This third part is really important, because not a lot of guys do this. People believe, especially men, that these amazing looking girls who are good looking, respectable career, amazing to talk to, it is somehow just going to be a friend of a friend.

Or somehow they just get a fall... No, it doesn't happen that way. You have to take action. You have to have the mindset of I'm going to this coffee shop, I'm going to this grocery store, even though yes, you're there to buy your eggs, or to buy your coffee. But your main mission is to approach. You have to be physically keeping that in mind or else you just gonna go in there, oh, well, I didn't meet anybody.

Or you can make excuses, oh, that girl's ugly, oh, that girl's too big, or she has a weird looking thing, or her hair looks bad. A lot of guys do that to avoid, here's a good one, to avoid being rejected. Here's the thing about building social skills, you are going to get rejected over and over and over again. This isn't gonna happen to you, but I push that to the extreme. Again, for some of you who know me, I've gotten cups thrown at my face, I have gotten beer thrown at my face, I have been slapped before in public. All that was well deserved to be honest with you.

But expect reject, not that kind of harsh rejection, because again, I've pushed myself to the limit, but not that kind of harsh rejection. Expect to be no thank you, or just being ignored, walking away. Those are the type of rejections you should expect. Because again, being social is a skill. You have to develop that. Finding these nuances of subtle little actions to take, you're going to learn that over time. I can't teach that to you. I can't teach you to tell you oh, she does this with her hand, or she does this...

The whole body language, nobody can teach that to you, because you are the only one who could pick that up. Any of these self-help gurus that tell you oh, she crosses her legs, she's going to be really into you. No, no. It's going to be the small, minor little actions that these women take that only you can spot. And in order for you to spot them, you have to do that through developing that skill.

And the last part is this. Don't be afraid to go out to bars or clubs. Don't listen to these women, you don't want to have this, again, in a much super respectable way, don't listen to this woman who has been tainted. Going out to bars and clubs is actually a good thing, is not a thing to go and just have sex, because that's what a lot of older women tend to say, right? Oh, I don't want to go there, it's just a meat market.

Because honestly, what is a bar club? It's just a place to express yourself. It's a place to socialize. But they just so happen to have music and beer. It's just an event. That's it. That's it. The women who say that bars and clubs suck, or that's gross, it's simply because they cannot keep up with the younger hotter looking women. That's what it is. That's exactly what it is. So just view that as oh, it's just the venue, and it so happens to be music, cool, awesome, right?

Your cute innocent little Jenny still goes out to bars and clubs as well. So that's one of the main things that you should head up. On top of that, when it comes to go into these places, expect to go by yourself, expect to go... Yes, it's gonna be weird, at least for you. I do this all the time and I love it. I don't have to wait for freaking Andrew to come over here, wait for me and then his friends to come...

No, I just want to go in, this bar is awesome, I am meeting a lot of people, boom, done. Or this club sucks, there's not a lot of people right now because I came a little bit too early, I'm gonna leave now, I don't wait for anybody. Go in, out, new place, new venue, meet new people, boom, done, out. If I meet a girl, I pull away her from her friends, I can go home with her right away. I don't have to be like ok, well, let me check with my friends.

No, you want to be as independent about this as much as possible and also it ties into the other part that I said, you have to go in there with a sense of direction with taking action. You can't be in there, Oh, I'm just here to listen to the band. You don't give a shit about the band, I don't care about the band, I don't care, how many times have you listened to Mony Mony?

Yeah, with your Corona in your hand, yeah. No, you're not, you are just using that again. This stance that a lot of guys do, this is it right here. This hand in the pocket, the stance right here is because they're insecure. This is their safe place. You might as well be doing this, it's ok Billy, it's ok, nobody's gonna hurt you, girls are not gonna say no, because you're never going to approach. You're not doing that, you are going to accept rejection. Why?

Because in the process of doing so, guess what's gonna happen? Maybe that fourth girl, maybe that fifth girl, maybe that seventh girls you approach that night, you're gonna be able to go home with and she could be your girl, she could be your fiancé, she could be your next wife, whatever it is. It might not even be that night. There's plenty of nights man, where I freakin just strike out. I would go out, not talk to anybody because I felt a little bit insecure, go home.

But you know what that does? That next week I go out, I say you know what, fuck that, I'm not gonna do what I did, that was frickin... Really? I got dressed up, I drove to that place and not talk to anybody, I am not gonna let that happen again. That type of frustration, that type of, you know, feeling a little bit angry towards myself, it's also a good thing to take more action in the future.

So accept all of that, man, pretty much accept all of it and expect it, as in to be rejected, not talk to anybody, and let that build up. So the next time you go, you're going to have this laser mindset, like, you know what, screw that, she rejects me, boom, awesome, next one, boom, awesome, next one.

You're going to take more and more action. But these are the things that we need to do, because again, majority of guys, especially when they're a little bit more mature, a little bit more older, they tend to just be hermits about it. Well, I'm just gonna concentrate on my business now.

No you're not, no you're not, or if you are you are still gonna use that as an excuse. But ultimately, if you do that, you're going to end up as this old lonely guy that you know you don't want to be. So take everything I've said today, take action. Don't think about it, just do it. Kai here, out. Take care.

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